I would not tell anyone of her friends "you wanted" to call her. I believe it would still be considered pursuing. If she is frustrated you didn't call then she should be the one calling you. Let her be the pursuer instead of you.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day