I would not tell anyone of her friends "you wanted" to call her. I believe it would still be considered pursuing. If she is frustrated you didn't call then she should be the one calling you. Let her be the pursuer instead of you.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day