OK - no matter how much she "teases" me with the idea of reconciling etc it's not going to happen till she thinks it is her idea and the remorse is part of it.
Sandi2 - Here are two questions from my last thread.
With the end of the school year the timing will be perfect. I don't want her back like this and if she continues to be this WW - I'll never be happy with her. D20 says her mum is a quitter.
She was married before, while being a stay at home mom she has tried all kinds of different businesses, interests, etc. None have stuck.
If she is truly quitting the MR - then it's time for me to move on.
If she is going to quit her new fascination/community/career in 3 or 5 years and come back - we will just have to see.
This she is saying is her life work and the people she is meeting etc are her people and her community and understand her, etc, etc.
The going dark is easy - that I don't have any problems with. The detaching is a process.
I'm guessing I should stick with the MC as it was my idea and he does not take any nonsense from her. That's why she quit before. So I'll stick with it - but I will not bring up reconciliation at all. Is that the right approach? I don't want to quit it because I should stick with my consistent actions right?
Please let me know Sandi2 and everyone else - please.
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M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017
