I guess that leaves us two things we need to give our wives: TIME and SPACE. Give abundantly! Unfortunately the time it takes for our Ws to come back around (if ever) is beyond our control and very slow. Most lbs move on before that happens, but cadet says most WAS do realise they made a mistake eventually.
Try complete NC when you have kids for those two weeks.
Best wishes
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together