I think the idea of tracking the positives is a good one. Because you will note the progression towards....rather than the movement away. As for Cainercast...I am subject to the same hooha. The cosmic crap bag.
Cainer would be the first to say all is subject to change according to action and will. Here's the thing, reading this stuff just makes us nuts. If it is good, do you remember the forecast and focus on it as long as you do if it is negative? When it does not apply at all, do you promptly put it away and forget about it? The readings work because WE READ INTO THEM...
I have been obsessed by this stuff, especially since h has moved out. IT IS THE ALLTIME CHEESELESS TUNNEL and does NOT offer a satisfying substitute for real connection. Your h is still there. Spend time and focus on how you want to DB and change the little things that happen between you.
Maybe we could together wean ourselves from the horoscope stuff...for me it is a real problem....cause I read WAY TOO much about Uranus in Pisces and how that will adversely affect everything in my homelife with H. Well heck there are a ton of Pisces men out there....are they ALL LEAVING THEIR WIVES?
And while we are at it, why stop at reading sun sign, read rising and heck...Jupiter sign is essential for understanding your luck cycle....point is..how are we going to focus our energy. Spending all this time to change and develop ourselves into confident wildy attractive beings...creatures like no other...only to read some generalized forecast and allow it to define our options?
Anyway, I think it is time we work on trusting ourselves, knowing our own minds and acting with confidence and living with intention. When I read about the entire exchange you had with your h about taking the day off to cycle, it reminded me of the kind of communication that I have with my h. It makes us both nuts. I am learning to first figure out what I want and then operate from there. My h hates when I contort myself to try to figure out and FIX things to work for him. I am learning.
ANyway...hope this ramble has meant SOMETHING for you. I, of course, wish you the very best and see many many positives in your situation that would and do have many of us feeling hopeful for your future.
