Pathway Change

[blueboy]

When reconciliation is being considered, I would tell the H to look for an essential ingredient in his WW...............which is humility.

Pride can be a terrible thing, and it can cause a WW to cling to a haughty attitude with her H. If she feels remorse, then I believe you would be able to see outward signs of humility. Without her humility, reconciliation is extremely difficult. In fact, I don't see how it could be completely successful. The pride and lack of humility will cause a WW to hang on to those old resentments and continue to blame the H for her unhappiness........and pretty much everything else.

She is displaying humility, she has a very low opinion of herself and her actions that have brought her to this point, she talk openly about having lost herself, belief and values and takes full responsibility for her actions!

She seems low and sad, which is hard for me to watch, she is open to talk about everything at anytime, and has asked me to not bottle thing up, to talk when I need too!