She's gone. Living in the now.

[Surfer]

Claudio.IMHO you need to be careful with promises to children. I promised I would not leave Mummy - it panned out okay actually as she left (not that is a good thing). My daughter said please don't marry anyone else Daddy (they live with Mum). I promised her that whilst I am married to Mummy, and I still am, then I would not marry anyone else. I think you can make promises but you just need to make sure there is 100% no chance you can't break them. Just need to exercise caution. I am sure you can always find a way around what you have said if you needed to - perhaps a woman might find you when you didn't look for her etc. For now, I wouldn't worry about any of this. Just GAL, enjoy yourself. No nagging arguments etc. Great times when you see the kids and in the meantime do what you want. At times I think my WW has done me a great favour.