After all the talk of waiting or moving on I've got a decision to make. I'm going to meet a married friend of mine for a drink this week. She's told me that she might have a nice lady friend for me to meet if I fancy some adult company! A close friend said she is about my age, clever and looking for stimulating adult company. He said not to think of it as a potential relationship but someone for adult company and to go out as a foursome with my friend and her husband. Don't know what to do. I haven't done this sort of thing since I was 21. Don't know if I'm ready yet or if I'm just scared. Also how S might interpret it, although it is hardly the same as his mum's actions. A lot to think about!