There was the first discussions between my wife and me today, initiated by her. It started out as a suggestion to be careful about me getting angry about her going out if town with the kids in earshot. The conversation progressed to trust issues of me snooping in her email and me trusting her that the affairs are over.

The short is that she will limit discussions with my BIL but she is nit interested in working on iur relationship.

M 17 years
3 kids
EA start 2010
ILYBNILWY 1/2014
PA 1/2016
Bomb drop 2/2016
Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016
Living as roommates, EA continues