I did 3 sessions with a coach, and she was very helpful at helping me stop the D. At that point, the advice I was given was to treat my wife like an out of tiwn guest...be polite and somewhat limited in interactions. As far as my sister goes, I was told that if it would upset my wife, I should avoid it. She specifically added that I had my own problems to deal with and to minimize new problems. It was very good advice.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues