SH, I hear exactly what you are saying. Take a deep breath, and do what you need to do. I am here and will be for the duration. There is no rush to do anything at all. Just hang in there and know you have someone out there in this big world that is pulling for you and wishing you healing and health and peace.

Pencil smiles, my dear SparrowHawk.

(((((((((((Savvy Heart)))))))))))

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16