I am sorry but not up on everything going on, but have you listed out the steps and progress you have made with H?

If the steps are small and gradual you might not realize you are further along than last month?

From that post he actually sounded caring and concerned that he had hurt you feelings and very much into doing things with you and spending time with you.

Sort of just a total outsider looking in view.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"