Where, oh where, has the SparrowHawk gone? Oh where, oh where can he be?

What's the status of the Phoebe Challenge, SH???

Did I overstep?

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16