Bee, so sorry that you are here, my husband had his crisis for almost 2 years, he moved out last May. He became cold and distant gradually before he bombed me. I went to two therapists and my husband went to one, we even had couple session, none of them worked and both therapists do not believe in Midlife crisis (feel like I'm just had my time and money wasted with them)
I randomly came here and read the articles, found it very helpful; started to post and learn. I'm trying to get a life and pull myself all together right now. Husband said too many mean things to me, I lose my confident and self image was so broken... later I learned they are using blaming, projection to avoid facing their childhood issue.
