Sandi2: One more thing. She keeps telling me I broke her i.e. neglect, financial mismanagement, etc. Never mentions her withdrawal from our MR or how she punished me etc, etc.

Is the only solution to this - she seeing the kids and I going on with our lives without her?

M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017