Sandi2: You are so right.

The W is so focused on her story. She is the victim and now even the kids are her enemy. S 15 told her not to visit. We have retracted that she is now visiting (as opposed to her moving back in).

She is still harping on that. She is telling me that the kids and I told her she is not welcome in her house. Grow up.

So no remorse from her. I guess it is possible that it may never come.

I'm beginning to think the MC is a bad idea now. Maybe I should just let her lead that. It's probably a no win scenario.

Are you avail for DB coaching? I really liked by DB coach - it was very conciliatory. I think your approach is more of what I need?


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017