Ok,well this may seem naive, but I'm still trying to wrap my brain around the whole process. So I need to detach myself, but I'm still not sure how to do that without coming off as hostile. Then I guess I wait for her to come back while working on myself. What if she never comes back? I can't see myself living the rest of my life receiving no support while financially supporting her (and she gets the emotional from the om) I just don't know if I could spend the rest of my life without being emotionally and physically intimate with someone. I'm just trying to figure out how this process works. Thanks for your help