3 Months since she said i dont love you (3)

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I'm no expert, but what she is doing seems to me like a classic example of temp checking.

Is that what it is? Im not sure what she has to gain by temp checking as two days earlier she told me she wants out and doesnt want any physical contact with me.

I just, i cant deal with it. Right now im just going to assume she still wants to leave me and act accordingly.

I don't have any more insight than you do... Finding the pursuit/distancing dance just as confusing as you even though it's an expected part of the script.

I was taught that the male always leads in the dance.

I unfortunately have been pursuing when she asked for MC. Then she dashed my hopes up a few days later by telling me she still wants to leave. We havent even gone to MC yet.

Im done. If she wants back in the R she will have to work it cause i am done having my hopes of fixing my family dashed again.

Its time for me to be selfish.