From what I understand your divorce is not finalized yet after more than 2 years? How is that possible? If you live together, how is custody an issue? Don't you see the kids every day? I am adding this topic to my watched topic because my wife is going through a midlife crisis as well and she is one year younger than your wife. I am glad your wife hasn't become a walkaway wife and that you can see your kids often. That's very good actually. I will try to read all your old posts to understand your situation better.
