What should I be Doing (piecing 6)

[Coconut]

Ok, you nailed it, we had a conversation, and we actually said I will resent her if she doesn't quit and she will resent me if she does. We do have a problem.

Right now, I am not nor have tried to control any other aspect of her life, but if she quits firefighting who knows if my focus would turn elsewhere. I just don't know, because I'm not in that spot. I've nvr been a controlling person, but I don't know if this experience will alter my personality.

I really need to think this through, maybe one option is to get her to do the bare minimum, only go to school and calls when she has to.. No volunteering at other functions, no truck checks, and agree to her finishing the 7 weeks of academy left, then readdress in 7 weeks. Maybe by then he will have switched to another station and I can gain some trust.