Awkward situation

[Tate]

I've never gone dark because of my kids. Over the last two years, my wife became more critical of me. Anything I did ot said was taken in a negative light. Once she wanted a D, she lightened up a ton. The local therapist said it was because she was relieved to make a decision. We get along better now than we have in years.

I'm furious about the affairs. The physical because she was a virgin when we got married (strict Catholic), and the EA because of the 6+ years of her lying to me.

My sister does not know about her husband. I found out because I called my sister for advice upon finding out about the affairs, and my wife sent me a msg to stop calling people. I put it together that me sister told her husband we were having problems and he told my wife I had called her. My wife slipped up. I don't know if I should tell my sister because it will make a huge mess.