Awkward situation

[Coconut]

Tate, I'm sorry to see you here, but you've come to the right place.

I'm gonna keep this short for right now, but let me ask you:

1. You've not gone dark for years, is that working?

2. Does it make you mad that your W is having EAs and PAs? Why are you worried about her getting mad if you just do you and let her be?

3. Does your sister know about the A? I'm usually against outing the A, but I would seriously have to consider telling my sister if my W was having an A with her H, and my sister was inviting my W over for vacation.