Ok thanks for the input. To answer a few questions, I am 33 and she is 39. The Om is 24. I never saw this coming. She is unemployed (her choice) that is one of the things that angers me, I'd rather not pay everything for a woman who is busy giving her all to someone else while I wait like a monk. Also she has been having drastic mood swings, last night she was yelling at me about nothing, this morning she hugged me for 10 min. So confused right now.
