Just got to laugh, she's told me that she's going to file for D but it's won't be for at least a year because she can't afford it.

I probably shouldn't have done it but I told her that I will file then and I'll just take it off the money I'm giving her for the joint loan we took out. This was not received well with her saying that she could not afford to lose that money each month as she's in a dire financial situation even saying "you're in a better financial situation then me". It ended with her saying that we can talk about it when she gets back from her trip.