Hey lovely RD - I'm sorry to hear your date didn't go ahead.....or maybe it' son bad thing!!! blush Actually, I'm finding NG pretty attractive these days, so I get where you're at...do you think you'll re-arrange at some point or just let things go with her?

I SMH at your W's comment! Working full time and with four kids - it's not surprising some housekeeping things slip. You're only human.

Still - pleased to hear she chipped in and helped. And I think your validation was fine - though not responding would also have been an option IMHO.

Lovely RD - only you know if it is time for you to initiate D. As time has gone by, I have been glad that decision was taken out of my hands - though I was so sad (as you know) at the time. You will know when the time is right.

Is it me or has the UK weather gone a bit bonkers? Hot and then dramatic rainstorm, then hot....I don't know what to wear these days!

Hope you're having a good weekend my friend xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus