WW is on a full-on charm offensive. Which would be awesome if she wasn't still in contact with OM. As it is, it's kinda driving me bonkers.

She's somewhat avoiding touch after I shut her down Wednesday night, but everything else is all guns blazing. She's talking constantly, being friendly, inviting me to all sorts of [censored] (and stuff she knows I like or was already planning to go to), strutting around gratuitously nekkid, suggesting a group photo and then spooning in like she's practically humping my leg. Offering little acts of service like making me a smoothie. Etc.

I'm trying my best to stay aloof and casual - not reacting to the nudity, saying I need to check my calendar, short responses, trying to end convos first, but it's kinda overwhelming and I feel like it's hard to say 'no' to everything when it's stuff she already knows I wanted to do, or we had planned previously.

Even if we're together somewhere, I guess I can still DB it and be light and breezy but distant. Is that sufficient or should I be coming up with excuses and aiming to do nothing out and about with her at this point?


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11