Hi Guys, I really enjoy your posts because they are very similar to my situation. It looks like we are all trying to detach at the moment and I see that in some cases there is an OM which is terrible and destructive. I don't have proof yet that my wife has found another man but it could very well be. Having said that, I noticed that our wives, because of their age, might be going through midlife crises, which on average last between 2 and 5 years for women. I would like to know if you are going to wait for their crisis to pass or if you are just going to find a new girlfriend and move on? I am a stander and I have decided to wait, even if I find out that my wife is having an affair, this is just the way I am. I will never give up on our marriage, I will give her plenty of space and time, I am not contacting her at all, but I will be there if she decides to come back someday. What do you think?
