How quickly things can turn, in our case on the children issue. D21 (who lived with me for a couple of years) had a disagreement with bf's parents over rent. D21 and bf will now move in with W and om - today?! She is due in August, and will have W there to take care of baby while she finishes school and works.
D19 and s14 were living with W. D19 was the one thrown under the bus. She is working at a mall 10-15 miles away for the past several weeks. W has mostly driven d19 to and from work (d19 has no license). And W called me last night and said this is costing her $125 per week (?!) So W is kicking d19 out of her place, and d19 will move in with my sister and BiL who live walking distance to d19's work.
And now the great news. W agreed (at least as of last night) that s14 can stay with me at least thru the summer. We then discussed where s14 would go to school in the fall - since W is not moving, if s14 lived with her he would go back to his old school and bad group of friends (witness his recent arrest for shoplifting with his "crew").
But she mentioned that where I live there is a really good high school. Maybe s14 should live with me in the fall and start over with a new group of friends?
We will see. Our custody hearing is in a week and a half.