Hi Kyler. Firstly there is always hope but I. The short to medium term I would expect anything from her except the usual script from a WAS
Right now she is done , and that's very hard to grasp. Her reasons may be sound or maybe in her head but to her , right now , they are 100% true and once you really believe that , you will be in a stronger place
IMHO stop talking to her friends about her, accept that she is done and start to live your life for you. What hobbies do you have , what things would you like to do or places would you like to visit ?
How about making today the first day of the new Kyler who chooses to live a happy and productive life for him and his kids. If one day W wants back in then you can see how you feel about that but that's for the future of ever