Hi DDJ, I think that was a really insightful post from Sandi, with much food for thought. I think if we can approach these decisions with a long term view and humility, that is the best way.
I would agree that perhaps a S is worth considering instead of jumping straight to D. It's also a good idea to dig a little deeper into the 'do I want to punish here' theme. After all, what your W is doing right now is only what you yourself have done in the past - we are none of us infallible after all.
Hope you have a good weekend
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
