Hi Cil, your new place sounds lovely and I'm glad to read you are settling in and liking it there....next to a library.....my dream location!!

It's good that you and your H have been able to do so much of the moving together. That's something me and XH haven't done. It sounds as though your H is struggling though and I think you did well just to be there for him. Time will tell how things will unfold, but you are sounding good within yourself, which is the main thing.

Keep on being awesome!! Xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus