Thanks man. I took S to the pool, and my anger has dissipated. We had fun, but he really just wanted to play by himself lol. Jump in the pool, swim out, repeat. 100 times! Now he's eating some pasta and watching Bubble Guppies before bed. He's so therapeutic!
WW called to say goodnight, rather than Facetime, while she was at the Apple Store. She says. Anyway, he didn't really pay her much attention but said bye bye and then she asked for a few pictures tomorrow. We're going to play at Monkey Joe's in the morning, and I'll post those to Facebook. I may send her a couple bland ones at home. She also mentioned she'd bring my father's day present when she comes to pick him up Sunday. "I hope it's not f-ed up." (She's always had a potty mouth. I used to accept it, but now....)
As for your advice. I felt like I was doing pretty well, and then just got sucked into a little hope. It was a complete disaster, and then I found BS in my house among my child's artwork. And I blew. I gotta remember: S and I. I'm making myself a great, not good man. And if she wants to throw that away for trash that's on her. I can find someone who appreciates me, I don't need her to be happy!!
Oh, and it's a marathon. I was going to tell her to go to the pool Sunday, but I would walk the dog, go clothes shopping and hit Costco rather than spend any time with them at the pool.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.