Well, She is acting super nice, she made me dinner, has sent lots of texts, communication is on the upswing, perhaps the D word comes as a relief to her, I can't read what is on her mind. Today I asked her to call the cell phone company to make me an account admin, for some reason I was not (yeah right for some reason...she wears the pants, no longer). I am taking my balls back, becoming the man I once was and more. Becoming a man that only a fool would let go. Today I open a new account and change my direct deposit, to go into that. I had to take out some of my retirement to fund the L. For some reason I am reluctant to put down the remaining 3500 for the retainer, holding off to see if the fog starts to clear. It is hard to tell, just going to wait a week. But Monday I plan to ask her about her financials so that I can complete the first wave of paperwork required for D. I hope all is well.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
