Here is what did happen. For the 1st time, W did mention that her "withdrawal" from our relationship was a factor. Up until now it has all been about what I did and what I did not do.
bigybiz,
What terrible atrocities did you commit against your wife to cause her to withdraw from your marriage?
Seriously, your wife's admission may be a good sign; I hope she continues down that path. My wife admitted to the MC that "maybe" her friendship had gone a little further than it should have. By the next session, I was reinstated as the spawn of Satan and she had no memory the previous session. I'm not trying to rain on your parade, but my wife seemed to enjoy getting my hopes up only to dash them away shortly thereafter.