Thanks for everyone's posts. Well the MC was not bad today. My expectations were higher than they should have been. Here is what did happen. For the 1st time, W did mention that her "withdrawal" from our relationship was a factor. Up until now it has all been about what I did and what I did not do.

Not sure if that is progress - but it was nice to hear.

M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017