I've come to realize the only thing that may bring them back is patience on our part and time on theirs. They need time to figure things out and feel a sense of loss - right now they are enjoying their freedom too much to feel anything! We can't rush the process, rushing it will only push them further away.
I'm actually looking forward to a weekend just the two of us (D and me).
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17