To answer the question from the end of the last thread. No we have not had the discussion of D. It has always been about S. W has said she is not in a hurry to change her name. That was about it.
I have no idea how she feels about it. For me I would need it to move on.
I think I will give it some time and I will see if she comes to me about it. I guess it deserves a talk before I go ahead and file. Right now the one year S is up and all that is left is to get the D paper.
Kids said they are going to visit the old street and go swimming at the old neighbors house. Kids asked if I could go. I am going to a car show that day as W has the kids is what I told them and I do.
I have no intention in going back to that street. This would be a hurdle if we were to R as I have no interest in being around the friends she made as they did nothing to help us and only hurt us.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016