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Great points DDJ. I definitely need to work on some of those things. I am fortunate in the fact that she refuses to bring the OM into our residence, I think primarily becuase we always have kids around, but it's nice to not have to worry about that. When she sees the OM its out somewhere or at his residence, so I don't think I'll have the exact same opportunity, but can definitely evaluate some new boundries that I can then enforce like sleeping somewhere else, etc.