Thanks DDJ. I agree, I'm letting her control my emotions, and that's something I need to continue to work on as far as detaching is concerned. It seems that I have a couple of good days where I feel like I'm not concerned about her or what she's doing and then something like last night happens and sets me back and lets some of those same emotions from when I found out about the OM creep back in.

Clearly I haven't detached as much as I think I have and I need to do more.


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Me:44
W:44
Together 22
Married 21
S 19
D 17, 15, 15. 7
EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016
EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016
ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016
WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)