Lost at the moment

[DDJ]

Lets see if i can help lfm, besides my question on my own thread.

This is how i see it. Your wife is still attached to the OM. Her actions are pretty clear. You can cling on and stay attached yourself, or you can let go.

Now we talk about co-dependency here, and i think i simpler word is familiarity. You are familiar with her being home. She leaves - you get anxious. She stays - you have a peaceful sleep.

Now this is unnatural. How is it that we allow someone else to impact on our physiological state? That's the thing - WE ALLOW.

And people only do to you, what you allow them to do.