4x4 time. Borrowing negatives seem to be the theme of the week with several posters.
I've pulled over to a rest stop, so don't worry about my fellow travellers on the interstate (THIS TIME!! )
The reason for your concern is that you still have not grasped the martian verbal communication concept.. It is so different from the venusians that there really is no comparison. IF, and this is a big thing, a martian should ASK for help, he is not opening himself up for mutual discussion, he is wanting solutions because he has exhausted all of his options. Your hubby is now confident enough to offer this assistance to his friend.
They are not going to go into a long touchy feely dialogue exploring the depths of mariatal bliss. Only the how do I fix this stuff. You hubby would not even think of discussing this if he didn't feel he had the answers for his friend.
Rottzalizations aside, this shows a deeper comfort level with your sitch by hubby. Allow him to help his friend by supporting his efforts and showing trust that you are growing closer. Don't make me get out the 4x6's!!
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. It is so different from the venusians that there really is no comparison. IF, and this is a big thing, a martian should ASK for help, he is not opening himself up for mutual discussion, he is wanting solutions because he has exhausted all of his options. Your hubby is now confident enough to offer this assistance to his friend.
