That is really a lot on you! But you really are working it. Sorry that you have to be on the receiving end of his spews. If he starts spewing again, don't take the bait. There really is no point talking to a person who is temporarily insane.
I wish I could smack your H for you.
Totally agree with SH.
He really is all over the place. I have a feeling that any pressure on him now will make him swing in the opposite direction that you want.
At this point, you really only can work on yourself. Keep showing that you are worth the sacrifice. He can see this but he might be feeling trapped. He's probably going through some sort of quarter-life crisis?
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
