To be fair, I was still in the clouds AND was getting S ready for bed lol.


Thanks for the encouragement. You're right, when she spoke it was English but it felt like I was trying to translate Japanese. All I could process was a bunch of nonsense.

She kept saying she cares about S, and a divorce won't affect him because other kids do it. That screamed rationalizing and I was POed she'd try to use S like that. She hasn't changed, and I see that. I guess I hear what you're saying. If she were telling the truth, I'd see or hear a change....

Tomorrow little guy and I will finish off the week with some pool time!!


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.