My wife walked out 2

[Coconut]

5 times??? You still got some work to do buddy, lol... In all seriousness, you don't want her back unless she is truly remorseful and she is 100% committed, trust me when I say piecing is tough and if you aren't completely convinced you will end up walking away.. Let it be tough for her, let her make the decision that you and your S is what she wants, let her work to convince you... Stop worrying if it will happen, just keep doing you and your S. If she doesn't really really really want it, it won't work, because you won't believe it...

I agree with ginger, don't punish her, don't even worry about her or her feelings, just do you. Don't make your decisions based on how she will react, just focus on you. You will know if/when she has truly changed, then you will get to decide. Don't make the mistake I made, don't make it easy because it's what you wanted, because what you wanted will change.