Not only time - the gift is TIME, freedom, space, and EMOTION. This is a powerful, highly charged emotional time in your life. These emotions you’re experiencing - now that the love of your life is slipping away from you. They are a powerful motivational force if you channel them correctly. You can buckle under the pressure or you can channel this negative energy into developing yourself and taking big action. You have a freedom available to you now that you did not have when you were in the relationship. You can squander this freedom - or you can use this time to become the man you always wanted to be.
This heartbreak you’re going through right now is valuable - it is a power motivating force for change that you would not have any other way. Some days will be very bad, you won’t want to get out of bed some days, you’ll feel like you made the biggest mistake of your life. But shift your perspective - there’s so much emotion in you right now, you can use this emotion to propel you into action. Use this energy to transform yourself into the best you possible. Someday you will realize this experience was necessary, and was a wake up to a totally new reality.
Think about this shift in your thinking - away from ‘I messed up, will she take me back’ - to ‘I’m glad this happened, it’s painful but it’s triggered something powerful in me that I’m determined to use to become a better person’.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16
