She replied quickly:

"I'm not willing to let you go. There is no affair going on!"

I don't feel that really calls for a response... not going to get lured into an argument about what is or isn't an affair, or whether affair partners can become harmless friends.

Going to do my GAL activities as planned tonight. One got cancelled, I may go to a movie instead to keep me away from the house.


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11