Joke for today: I put my rootbeer in a square cup. Now I have a cup of beer.
Wet, it's funny but I was talking about something similar the other day. I don't know exactly when it actually sank in, but I do recall it really meaning something to me. What I am talking about is the realization that it really wasn't about me at all. I saw your post where it made you feel bad that your W would "rather be with a fall down drunk/drug-abusing abusive man" than with you.
As V said, it's not about you. While that's rationally obvious, it occurs to me that it may not have really fully sunk in.
It's really about her, Wet. Her choices. You could have been a super-rich, superstar of stage and movie screen, who works to save starving people around the world in his spare time when not mentoring orphaned children. And she still would have done these things.
It's just not about you, my friend.
I hope things are well with your daughter and son, Wet.
Peace,
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."