So for those reading along I'm not in a good place between myself and my W. Divorce papers filed and now lawyers are involved. It would appear to me this is when "Going Dark" is put into place. I complete disconnect from her except conversations regarding the kids etc.
M:13 years Known her for 30 years! Me: 40 W: 38 Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7 BD: 02/07/2016 Found EA: 3/22/2016 Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16 Got Papers: 6/15/16