Thanks for the truths and the support all. I agree 100%. I appreciate the frankness Sandi.

WW sent me a text this morning. BS fog "relationship" talk, but not sure if it's more appropriate to ignore or give a short but firm response.

WW text: "I'm trying to move forward but you chose to stay in limbo. It's been months that I've tried getting away from the thrill and obsessions. It was challenging but very trying. But I got there.

You make me feel that I'm not worth the inconvenience of me keeping this friend. Anyone who enters my life is in my life forever until they've done me wrong. That's just the way it is.

Try to get over your pride and jealousy. If you can't then it's going to get in the way of things."


[Certainly I don't believe she has really gotten to the point of being "just friends", although from her fog-induced state she may or may not believe that herself]

I am leaning towards a response like: "If you care more about holding on to him than holding on to me, it's your loss."

Although runner ups include "You already know how I feel on the subject", "lol", "I hope he's worth it.", or "I'm not interested in sharing you with the guy who tried to [censored] you while we were married."

Thoughts?


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11