Huddy, Yes no more doormat. Just ran into her, she acted like she did yesterday before I told her. Sort of affectionate, putting her arm around me and hands across my waste. Temp checking, I gave no return this time. I hugged her goodbye yesterday, that was enough. She is still wearing her ring...so am I. Time for that to stop I guess. I feel like a widower.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder