No worries mate. You have decided that you cannot stomach this anymore and to protect yourself you are going for a D. Can't blame you at all. It's always worth some 2x4's just to make sure, but you seem to me you have rationalised this through.
So, now you have to look after the most important people in your life, you and your S. Your W has made her choices, so, it's time for her to grow up a bit. Doormat no more!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015